you need to get a weight hitch man. I pass you about 5 pm on mt morris road.
lmao i know right lol i was coming back from the mounds..i had a blast that xj can go thru some shit...i forgot my camera so i couldn't take pics where me and this other tj lifted on 35s got stuck and shit....but anyways nah i just bought me some air shocks so that will work instead of the hitch...i talked to a bunch of ppl and they said that air shocks are awesome and you can air them up more if you need to
still doesn't take off the really high tongue weight you are dealing with. I wouldn't want to be behind you while you are hauling that like you are right now.
Find a used set up. trust me.